Hello from Utah!
New to poly, and this forum! I have traditionally been mono, but have been monogamously dating a woman for 18 months who has traditionally been poly. She recently let me know that she was feeling repressed, I want nothing more than her happiness, so I agreed to open the relationship up to polyamory.
So here I am! Dealing with the whole spectrum of emotions as someone adjusting to poly with an established relationship. I lurked for a bit and decided this was an awesome crowd that I wouldn't mind virtually hobnobbing with!