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Old 10-17-2011, 05:18 PM
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Lots of mono people still maintain relationships with former lovers. I fail to see what that has to do with anything. Besides, how can anyone here tell you what she is? We don't know her and that's up to her to discover or decide, as long as she is clear about what polyamory means. Some people view being polyamorous as an internal part of their identity. Some (like myself) simply view it as a structure for relationships.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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