I was grocery shopping yesterday and Redpepper's Dad came up and said hi. I extended my hand, as I have always done to him, and we shook for the first time since we came out to them. He mentioned the fact it had been a while since we shook hands. We chatted pleasantly and then returned to our shopping. It felt good that he aproached me as opposed to avoiding talking. I felt no discomfort at all...I am more confident and assured than ever....this is right for us.