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Old 10-16-2011, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by IrisAwakened View Post
How long is it for you guys (typically), before your two loves meet?
Two loves? [giggle] Only two? A few people here have more than that!

Everyone does it differently. Some people's loves never meet, some have them meet on the first date, some after a relationship has been established.

I'm solo and only seeing one guy casually right now. I highly doubt he will meet anyone else I start dating (when that happens). If I wind up with three or four boyfriends someday, maybe some will meet, and some won't. I would only arrange that if it feels like it's the right time, place, and circumstance to do so -- and if it's something all of us want. But then, I don't have a primary (and am not looking for one), so it might be different for someone who does.
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