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Old 10-15-2011, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by CranberryStardust View Post
I guess I stay because the sex is so good. And its safer than having sex with a single guy with whom I might get too involved or who might hurt me.
But they are hurting you...

What's wrong with getting "too" involved? How involved is too involved?

If you want a NSA arrangement, there are single guys who are more than willing to do that. More than otherwise, I'd say.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62) loving Pixie (poly, F, 40) since January 2009, living together since 2013
Seeing Kahlo (polyish, M, 45)
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixie's Dom/bf for 3+ years
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