Originally Posted by Iloveyoutwo
His reasons for staying, in his words, are the kids. His wife has said she would leave if she found out he had a sexual relationship with someone. She would leave and go back to Japan as she has nothing else keeping her here in the US, and either take the kids or leave them with him. He wants neither of those things. He wants his children to have both their parents around.
If she did take the kids out of the country, she could be charged with kidnapping and there is legal action he could take to prevent that. That she can only see kidnapping or abandonment of her kids as her only course of action is extremely disturbing.