You just had a baby. This is ridiculous. The baby should be both of your concern right now no? Having had a child, I can not see how anything else matters right now. He obviously does not realize this or care. Of course you aren't ready. You have just undergone the biggest life changing event a woman could possibly endure. You likely need time for that. Like three years!
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