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Old 10-13-2011, 03:51 PM
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Hmm, yeah, if you guys were old hands at this it would be one thing, but since you're new to it and struggling, a higher level of understanding from your partner doesn't seem unreasonable at all. Plus you're not asking for much, just a basic mention of contact. Plus, he already agreed to it! I wonder why he's balking at it now. Opening up isn't always easy, and helping you be more comfortable now will benefit everyone in the long run.
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