Originally Posted by Sunshinegrl
I think that TRUE equality in any relationship... not just triads, quads, V's etc, is impossible. Even Fairness is over rated. What it is that it seems to work best is Balance. Everyone having as much of their needs met as possible and A general happiness that comes with it.
I totally agree. Thanks sunshine. I was a bit stuck and uncomfortable with the terms "equality" and "even." I think that balancing everyones needs is what we strive to do in order to all be happy.