Just today I read the following recommendations on other threads here:
Living Happily Ever After-Marsha Sinetar
The 6 Pillars of Self-Esteem-Nathaniel Brandon
Divine Sex:liberating sex from religious tradition-Philo Thelos
I know Mono had posted another because he didn't like the Ethical Slut-but I can't recall what thread it was on. You might pm him....
"Love As Thou Wilt"