Originally Posted by Podunk
Cindie, you're beating a dead horse on this. Your take on our relationship is so far off base, neither of us responds to it, but still you persist. Sorry, but repeating these ideas over and over and over is really not helping anyone.
I'm not beating a dead horse, nor persisting about anything. There are two threads, you know. One is addressed to you, the other VC. It was simply a suggestion on something to look at. No need to get all defensive. If you don't think some more inner exploration about what you want or expect from poly is necessary, then don't do it.