Originally Posted by SNeacail
I see a lot of speculation in your statements. Definitely a topic you two should discuss. However, it's not unusual for people, especially guys to have little to no interest in kids (babies) they don't have a personal connection to. He may just not see it any different than if you were discussing a tv show he doesn't watch.
Ha, sooo, you were exactly right. Turns out I'm not a terrible person, I just like to freak myself out. Davis said "Don't expect me to get excited about Bee, k? It's not him or his parents, I just don't really... *shrug*" Me -- "Care about kids you don't have a connection to?" Him -- "Yup." Me -- "I'm sorry, I guess I got a touch of that myopia that parents tend to get about how their kid is the most perfect, interesting thing ever..." We chuckled over it.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
Last edited by AnnabelMore; 10-11-2011 at 06:27 PM.