So, this thread is evolving and will be moving to the Life Stories and Blogs forum. In the interest of seeing it off to a good start in it's new home, I'll share my poly pondering for the day. It isn't a poly blog, but it's author is a poly dude with many years of experience.
Having new words is the first small but critical step towards changing the culture. We have had the term compersion, for quite some years now, but most polyamorous folx are still taking baby steps when it comes to appreciating their lovers other lovers, much less being excited about them or feeling really good about them. - Paxus Calta http://paxus.wordpress.com/