Might I suggest that this become a blog on the "Life stories and blogs" forum? That way you can vent and not have people respond, including VG. I would suggest VG do the same. My concern is that this become a war on this forum. This thread will be locked in an instant as will VG's if quoting each other and telling each other off on here become common practice.
I advice that both you and her remember to stay off of here if you feel like throwing words at each other that will provoke. That is not what this forum is about... thanks for your consideration in this. Let me know if I can move this for you.
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
Send me your name via PM