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Old 10-10-2011, 02:36 PM
GroundedSpirit GroundedSpirit is offline
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Ni Newtoday,

I'm going to go out on a limb and say you are being affected by the all-to-common disease of competitiveness.
When you thought you were # 1 in the sexual fulfillment dept - you were golden.
Now you see some potential to have that position challenged - whether it's real or not.
Repeat to self 1000 times ............

Love and sex are NOT a competition !!!

When you see his mate as a partner (as opposed to a competitor) working towards the same goal (his happiness) these feelings and fears will go away.

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