Originally Posted by Moonglow
For me the sex now seems secondary at all. It actually quite bewildering.
This (unless I'm misreading someone else.). Once I get emotionally close with someone, it's like "Why not?" At that point, I know they respect me, and have my best interests at heart (and me theirs). All the things that would normally stop me from sleeping with someone (unsure of intentions, trust that I'm safer with them, etc.) are gone. So why not, if the opportunity arises?