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Old 10-10-2011, 02:08 AM
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Maybe the distressing part for you here is not so much that he may want/need more than you feel you can give, but that you don't know what it is you want..?
Totally. :/

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I think it's quite relevant for these considerations to know more specifically what his needs are.
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it might be good to consider (and discuss with him) the place of Gia and Eric, as well as possible future partners, in your life. What is it that will make you both happy; how much of a part of your life is he happy with other people being?
Yeah, I am thinking I need to have a big talk with him about this stuff this week, and that I need to talk a little more with Gia as well...
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