I've only got a minute, but I wanted to respond to you, SisterWoman.
I am an abuse survivor myself. I know every case is different, but the patterns are the same. So I'm going to give you, straight up and without any sugar-coating, the heart-felt advice I wish I had paid better attention to when I was where you apparently are now:
Get out. Find the shortest path between where you are and where you and your daughter will be safe, and walk that path. Better yet, run it!
You deserve to be treated with respect, love and compassion.
NO ONE deserves abuse.
There are resources to help you. Find them. Use them.
I wish I had more time, but I gotta jet. I'm praying for you, SisterWoman. Be safe, be strong.