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Old 10-09-2011, 02:48 PM
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This is definitely true for me too. I've wondered -- do I find my friends attractive because I love them as friends, or because I subconsciously pick hot friends?

Luckily, most of my friends are pretty chill about casual sexual interactions if they happen to happen (ranging from snugglingto a drunken makeout session to fuckin') and aren't squicked by bisexuality (thus avoiding the "my same gender friends flee me!" problem described above), so it's never really been a problem.

I think for people who aren't hardwired mono these sorts of attractions must be pretty common, no?

Of course, I could see it being a major logistical problem if you tried to partner with all your friends and they weren't open to the idea of forming a commune!
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.
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