So, this (seemingly very strict) rule is, no sexual touching without the spouse's knowledge. So, if you wanted to touch Tabi's private parts in the car, you'd have had to announce to LT, who was in the front seat with her lover, "I am going to grope Tabi's crotch now," and receive permission before doing it? Thanks for finally clearing that up.
If there was that little snafu early on in the date, perhaps that was Tabi and Boogie's issue that night. Once you all got to the bar and started playing pool, and you were acting all grumpy and playing pool aggressively, and not joining in the mutual flirting, maybe that was why, later, Boogie was less than enthusiastic when it came to bedtime, and unable to shag LT with you in the next bed. Maybe they left the room to discuss how you 2 seemed to have some jealousy and anger management issues...
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37