Originally Posted by Jade
Question though, because there's a world of difference between hot wifery and polyamory... Isn't part of your excitement derived from the fact that this other man is not someone well known to you? A poly relationship would foil that excitement over time. Just something to think about.
There was someone here for a while who was into hotwifery, and I believe he and his wife had a regular guy for that, whom they had built trust and an understanding with, IIRC. I didn't think it was always supposed to be with strangers.