for me when my husband dates someone it is mandatory that I at least know the person and appreciate them. I would want to be able to have them over for supper, call on them with my concerns when I have them and invite them to places to socialize with me and my husband.
I don't know what you definition of friend is but mind is akin to my love relationships and has similar depth or potential to be deep... I don't think that is necessary, but I think it is at least healthy to be able to be comfortable around each other.
It's also mandatory that my partners are the same with my husband... there has to be a good fit all around otherwise it seems to just fizzle out for us due to lack of depth and therefore eventual boredom.
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