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Old 10-07-2011, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Mara View Post
If she hadn't lied would it have been okay with you for her to have had sex with him?
Yes, I have elaborated on that above.

If you want to salvage your relationship, it seems like you are going to have decide whether you want to accept her apology and if you want to let go of the fact that she seems to have she had to lie about the sex. Why, is there an emotional complex there she needs to hide?
I'm still waiting for anything that sounds like a sincere apology. So far veganchick seems mostly upset that this has caused her a huge problem, rather than any sympathy at all for me. I'm trying to be patient and give it time.

I don't have any answers but can read and see your pain. Sometimes people get caught up in their emotional complexes or pain and begin to rewound over and over.
Guilty. I'm processing the initial trauma now, got some sleep last night and am trying to get out of that cycle.

Wishing you ease from this hurt,

Mara, a new member
Thank you.
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