Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
Dude, walk on. That bad behavior is too egregious to tolerate.
Were it me, I wouldn't even bother trying to find out the extent of the lying, nor would I care why it happened.
The single greatest lie I see is the one where she claims to love you. There's no love or respect involved in behavior of that sort.
The notion that anything can be worked out or that you should make an attempt to work it out is so much nonsense. Nobody should tolerate behavior of that sort from anybody else. It is not a virtue to put up with that and try to work things out--it is dysfunctional.
You might be right, that was certainly my initial reaction and still a large portion of how I feel. Part of me wants to look away from your words and part of me is very grateful for the validation. Not sure what's right at the moment, but like many of the sentiments above I will carry these thoughts with me as I navigate the coming days. Thanks for the input!