Originally Posted by nycindie
I am just wondering why you are so against forgiving her. This can be repaired. Anything can be repaired if love is there. You're writing her off so quickly, such an extreme reaction.
I don't know, personally, what it would take for me to regain trust in a partner who'd knowingly endangered my health while keeping me in the dark. Forgiveness is ome thing, trust is another.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.