Originally Posted by redpepper
Excuse me for asking because I might of missed something, but where is the poly here? What if she does fall in love elsewhere? What if she does run away sometimes with another man.... how would this break up your home and how will it cause harm to your child and bring unhappiness? It doesn't sound like you came here to talk about poly, but to talk about your wife flirting... and how you might loose it if anything more came of it... *confused*
I was trying to help Phantessa see why I'm not jealous. I meant "I am NOT threatened by her flirting". I meant "I dont think her seeing another man occasionally would lead to her running away permanently, as our relationship is nice and strong".
You said "sometimes" - I meant permanently.