Originally Posted by sadibird
No offense or anything, but masturbation just doesn't cut it. If anything it makes it worse. He doesn't guilt me for it. We're pretty sex-positive.
How so? Do you mind explaining how it makes things worse? I find that masturbation is really hot when my partner spoons me or holds me in some way while I'm doing it, even if he's not feeling sexual or is done for the evening and I'm not.