Originally Posted by Zenferno
NRE definitely gave me "tunnel vision" when I started getting serious with Paramour and it started to hurt my marriage. I've learned to reinvest NRE into my relationship with my wife and she loves it! You could try it while you're still in the fantasy stage and see how it pans out for you.
There was a thread back on here in July, where a new to poly couple, was having a problem with a partner getting tunnel vision over a new relationship, and it may have very well ended their marriage, based on the last messages posted.