Originally Posted by sagency
In any case, your drive is what it is. You'll have to manage it regardless if what your relationship(s) look like. Polyamory isn't necessarily a good answer to a high sex drive. Heck, poly takes a lot if work at times, and some of thise times you might just really be wanting a good and thorough fucking.
Good wording here.
At OP : You have the right to be a 'in-betweenie' too.
Someone who wants a true friend, mutual respect, maybe a crush, and some really great sex. You can have a connection with someone, without wanting the entire poly lifestyle.