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Old 10-03-2011, 06:40 AM
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Happy for you!

And I think a lot of poly tangles have boundaries around texting or calling during time spent with one or the other. You can either set your phone to silent and just check for messages when appropriate to do so (many proponents of "simplifying" our lives advocate disengaging from our devices in some way), or tell your new guy what hours texting wouldn't be cool. It will all work out.

Yay, you!
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