So I didn't waste any time on this. I just fixed us both a big breakfast and when we sat down I laid it all out on the table with complete honesty. We had a really good chat, and my husband was an amazing trooper. His only concerns are that nothing be neglected in our own relationship.
The one boundary he asked for was in regard to texting. My friend likes to text, so my phone dings a lot from early morning until late at night. My husband and I both agreed that that could be an intrusion into our "own time" even when I don't answer the text.
I've got the biggest smile on my face and the lightest heart right now!