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Old 10-02-2011, 08:00 PM
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I agree the kink has broad range of interest/dynamics/reasons..etc. But I was only finally able to accept it when I internalized that people do it because they WANT to. If some one hates being in the lifestyle, they won't do or they're being abused. It's not all always fun and games but ultimately, it's something we do because we gain a lot of positive things from it. Whether that be pure pleasure, fun, cathartic release, emotional needs, sexual needs, etc.... I've found that a lot of my play can be extremely fun although it runs the spectrum. I feel like I agree with MZ, not that we should be flippant but that we do it because it adds good things to our lives whether on a casual or serious basis.
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