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Old 10-02-2011, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by MichelleZed View Post
D/s is essentially a game, right? People do it for funsies. Those that do it just in the bedroom are casual about their gaming, and those that "lifestyle" it are more hardcore gamers. That's how I think about it.
Originally Posted by MichelleZed View Post
I know, but one always takes one's hobbies way too seriously.
Originally Posted by MichelleZed View Post
You keep saying "just a game" and I've never said that. I think we are just using the term "game" differently, that's all.
I guess. I guess an obsessed artist would be a "hardcore serious gamer" in your book. Picasso and Van Gogh painted as a "hobby," which they took too seriously?

24/7 lifestylers are hardcore gamers, not just 2 people practicing a relationship dynamic out of deep love and mutual growth? "For funsies?"
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