Originally Posted by Casey
These times involve no contact with anyone else, just energy going in to the one person.
I think for me this is the key! I don't usually schedule time, athough I'm sure that can be good for some people. But I make sure that I spend time with both of my partners, and also enough alone-time. And when I'm spending time with one partner I focus on them and whatever we're doing. NRE easily makes you obsessed and think about the person all the time, but the least you can and must do is to also give your undivided attention to your existing partner regularly.