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Old 10-02-2011, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
I don't know if LBD is a myth or not... I've only been in my first lesbian relationship ever for 2 1/2 years now... but I am always wary of that happening!
Me too ! You might be happy to know that, based on detailed comparative research, although women-only couples do report less frequent instances of sexual contact than either man-woman couples or men-only couples, they come more frequently during sexual encounters and report higher overall satisfaction levels with their sex lives than either of two comparison groups. The early studies reporting LBD were very focused on counting the frequencies of sexual contact, whereas if we take Kinsey's original definition of sex as "touching that leads to sexual release", women-only couples have more sex than others !

Statistics aside, as the OP said, when the sex happens, it's fan-tastic. I think this a rather general mismatch of libidos question that mono couples face all the time - after all, in mono relationships the less interested party can still wank or consume porn and spend their energies there.

If you have to travel for work, OP, maybe it's time to consider some downshifting?
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