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Old 10-02-2011, 11:16 AM
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I was wondering if anyone else has felt the way I'm feeling.
Yep.

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I know from experience - from being intensely attracted to several of our friends (one female, one male) - that that attraction makes me ignore my current relationship.
What happened to these attractions?

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I guess what I'm asking is this: does NRE usually cause tunnel vision, is that usually harmful to an existing partner, or am I just hardwired to be monogamous?
Often, often, maybe.

The uncomfortable fact remains that things might change. Even if you feel hard-wired now, it could change in the future. Sexual orientation especially is known to fluctuate, and a few mono-identified people start exploring polyamory after all, and some poly-identified people might go mono "for the right person" .
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