Hi PassionFlower, welcome to the board.
Would you explain why your female love interest is already living with you and your family? Was she already a platonic roommate or did you have her move in when you got romantically involved with her?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37