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Old 10-29-2009, 12:33 AM
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There's a really big difference between being "friends for now" because you have work to do, and other things to attend to that just make being in another relationship too hard at the moment, and being FRIENDS - whether for now, or forever or any length of time inbetween because you're respecting your partner's feelings.

It's wonderful that polyamory is working for you, it really is! But at this point, you're only remaining friends with M because it's convenient for you - not out of respect for TheMountainBoy's feelings. You still have your ultimatium on the table - and I really hope that doesn't ruin your relationship.

I truly wish the best, and wish for you guys to be a success story. It will be a long road to becoming one, but it's happened - look at LovingRadiance and Maca! But they are not a common thing in ANY scope of relationships. Don't expect similar results.
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