Perhaps not intentionally. To me it sounds like you think it IS a case of All or none when it comes to "marriage". To me it sounds like that you think that Violet is wrong/inconsiderate for wanting that symbol of commitment.My thoughts are commitment is only as good as the People involved..People walk away from Children and marriages everyday. I would think that if HMA and Anne decided to have children together that would be a huge sign of commitment. Choosing to have a child with someone it a freaking huge commitment. As big a step as making the commitment to marry someone IMO.
I donít get many things right the first time
In fact, I am told that a lot
Now I know all the wrong turns, the stumbles and falls
Brought me here...
And where was I before the day
That I first saw your lovely face?
Now I see it everyday
And I know that I am
I am, I am
~ Ben Folds five ~