Originally Posted by dingedheart
Or is it a combination of both?
I say a combination of everything. Right or wrong, she has lost everything, and meds and stress will make a body cling to weight. She probably isn`t eating right, and that could affect her body chemistry with even the same perfume.
As for what you notice,..... you still notice things about her, but they are no longer the pleasant things. She still interests you, but not in a positive way.
It`s habit that makes you evaluate.