Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn
as someone who has only experienced abuse from another woman, I do see that a gender/sexuality bias exists in talking about intimate partner abuse.
BU, thought you might find this tidbit from Wikipedia interesting:
"Numerous studies done between the 1980 and 1994  report that lesbian relationships have higher overall rates of interpersonal aggression (including psychological aggression/emotional abuse) than heterosexual or gay male relationships. Furthermore, women who have been involved with both men and women reported higher rates of abuse from their female partners. "
Looks like you're not alone. :/
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.