Originally Posted by AnnabelMore
Hmm. All I've read is the one post you just linked, but maybe nobody felt the need to tell her she was wrong because she clearly already knew she was wrong? She said herself that she'd become someone she hated.
Your missing that she also says that it was her husband's depression that made her become an abuser because he acted like he wanted her to be. Nobody ever wants to be abuesed and being an abuser is always a choice.