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Old 09-28-2011, 08:39 PM
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I came back to post again because I just had this thought. Totally intuition on my part, but I get the sense that you and your wife need more playfulness and lightheartedness between you. I think that making time to have fun together, just the two of you, without family, day-to-day responsibilities, or other worries of married life, will make a huge difference. I have this image of you taking her to a carnival, buying her a cotton candy, and going for a ride on the Ferris wheel. Do you two have a regular "date night?" If not, I highly recommend!
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