Originally Posted by violet
For me, it was more discovering things that I thought I had "dealt with", that in reality I'd just buried.
Good for you! We invite into our lives what helps us grow and I imagine poly opens itself to all sorts of stuff. Like you say, separation anxiety and insecurity.
Someone recently told me something like: It's a gift when someone who loves you pushes one of your buttons. Much more difficult to deal with someone who doesn't love you triggering you.
Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
military profession for almost 20 years
WOW! That's quite a change. Yeah redpepper!
It's still a good reminder for me to hear why/how someone would love capitalism. Helps me understand. I'm one of 'dem freaky types who loves the environment, thrives on communication and all that hippy dippy shit.