You're no longer involved in a poly tangle, state your intent is to find a mono relationship in the future, and then post on polyamory.com boards? I find that rather odd.
I also think the thread is off-topic for the board, so I'm going to close it for now. We may re-open it if we can find some good reason to do so.
Edit: I've been asked to re-open this discussion and I'm willing to do that. I'll be watching, however, and if it sinks into an extended bash of polyamory, I'll close it again.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
Last edited by AutumnalTone; 09-30-2011 at 12:48 AM.