Yes. Rather recently actually. I had an emotional affair. The result of which is a poly relationship with the other couple if you can believe. However there was a time when she felt like she was really going to lose me and she said she got back that feeling. I imagine it stopped because we decided to be poly with the other couple.
I have never forgotten about her in terms of romance and sexuality. I consider myself much more well versed in romance than most men and I never stopped this. I had my flaws but I have changed now. She has also had flaws and I have forgiven and moved on.