Tahirabs, dear one:
There are infinite possibilties for giving and receiving love. It is not necessary to be concerned about the way others arrange their relationships, just as it is not necessary to worry now about troubles and choices that may never come.
If your relationships are working for you and your beloveds, they're working. Who cares what someone outside may think or do or say?
Love one another.
Express that love in respect, compassion and joy.
Nurture one another. As troubles arrive, face them together with sincerity and unity.
Live today and let tomorrow worry about itself.