Originally Posted by nycindie
I love your analogy. You certainly have a way with words! From your other thread:
Your cleverness comes through loud and clear and is a pleasure to read!
We talked a lot about this stuff. Hopefully she understands why I was upset. She is good at discussing things calmly and respectfully and being overcompensatingly affectionate. Says that this night with the new guy was just "an extension of the first date" two days prior, and they didn't do anything they hadn't already done then, and were both respectful of our rules, so she thought I would be ok with it. Plans were to "maybe" go to his place Monday, but she offered to postpone it until after we see each other again if I'm not comfortable with that yet.