Originally Posted by Ceoli
But that does not mean that those finances have to make that relationship a priority over a relationship that may not have that particular entanglement. For some it may be the case, but it doesn't have to be the case for everyone.
I appreciate that thought Ceoli, and agree in theory, i'll just have to see how things will turn out in practice, in my case
(M&H share a house, 2 businesses, a car, dog, etc. together, but we nevertheless consider our relationships with each other to be 'equal but different'.
As for our structure. We've defined our selves as fidelitous for the time being, with option to open again. this is because each relationship in our trupple (my sisters new word for a triad! she said 'youre not in the mafia, call it a trupple
) is either new, or newly mending. we each require a lot of the others' time and energy right now!