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Old 10-28-2009, 05:39 PM
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I think what it all boils down to for me is that:

some people { draw comfort in / find security in / ascribe a value to } feeling like this is what the relationship looks like and these are the people involved. Bidirectionally monogamous couples and some polyamorous people seem to feel this way and probably fidelity is for them. Where it harms not do what thou wilt and all that.

Some people ascribe no such value and draw no comfort from such, and such persons might not want to waste their time even worrying about such things.

And some people might feel absolutely trapped and downright suffocated by the idea or closing off their relationship possibilities and probably fidelity is not for them.
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